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What do you want in 2026?
Hi Everyone, I write this blog as a way to share some of my thoughts that have helped me and my hope is that someone will get some tidbit from it that will resonate. I am not obtuse to what is going on in our world, I can let my voice be heard on issues but I know I cannot control the external only my space and energy. I wanted to share one of the ways I try and do this. So, on that note, let me start by wishing everyone a fulfilling, peaceful and Happy New Year. At the begin

Jan Ware
3 days ago3 min read


Let's talk Feng Shui
What is Feng Shui (pronounced fuhng shwey)? The literal meaning is Feng “wind” and Shui “water”. Feng Shui is the balancing of chi, or universal energy that is in all things. In my mind, it is the application of the same guidance of Reiki; balancing the flow of energy, but instead of in one’s body, it is in the actual spaces we spend time in, our homes, schools and work spaces. It is the knowledge of balancing energy, chi, in any given space. I have studied Feng Shui for a

Jan Ware
Nov 18, 20253 min read


Practicing Discernment & Kindness
Discernment is defined as ‘the skill or quality of being able to comprehend what is obscure or hidden among what others present to us. In other words, as my Dad used to say, “to cut out the bull and get down to the meat of it.”

Jan Ware
Sep 24, 20253 min read


Distractions Good and Bad
Hi Everyone, I’ve been thinking a lot about distractions, the good and the bad. When they are a positive coping skill and when they can...

Jan Ware
Jun 2, 20253 min read


Should you, Could You?
Hi All, Hope you are finding yourself some times of quiet and peace during these very tumultuous times. Remember to BREATHE. I decided...

Jan Ware
May 5, 20253 min read


A Chilly Day with Bandit and a Quick Reset Method
Hi All, It has been a good month since my last post. My husband and I recently bought a colonial home, (read 1726, Yes, no joke!) and...

Jan Ware
Apr 1, 20252 min read


Showing Support to those in Grief
Hi all. I thought I would share with you some of the ideas and principles that I have learned as a Grief Recovery Specialist™ of what is...

Jan Ware
Feb 24, 20253 min read


What is Unresolved Grief?
Did you know there are more than 40 different life events that can cause feelings of Grief? Everyone, without exception, at some point in...

Jan Ware
Jan 16, 20253 min read


Happy New Year!
Reflections of the year on NYE. What does that actually mean to me? What I like to do is take some time and think about the year in full...

Jan Ware
Dec 31, 20243 min read


Rumi's The Blind Follower
If you haven't read Rumi's "The Blind Follower" from the book, Rumi Poems , selected and edited by Peter Washington, I invite you to do...

Jan Ware
Nov 22, 20242 min read


My Checklist in this Moment
Hi All, It may come as no surprise that I am disappointed with this week's election results. I respect that it didn’t go the way I...

Jan Ware
Nov 8, 20242 min read


Lessons from my dog, Bandit
Hi all, Today is a glorious day in New Hampshire at least on the Seacoast. I have the privilege of living close enough to the beach to...

Jan Ware
Oct 10, 20243 min read


Whoopie Pies, Caramel Popcorn and RAIN!
Then on the day of the wedding it RAINED and I mean poured. But no one complained, at least I didn’t hear anyone.

Jan Ware
Sep 30, 20243 min read


Anger is it Really a Bad Thing?
One last important note, in my opinion anger is not always a bad thing.

Jan Ware
May 30, 20242 min read


Unresolved Grief, What is it?
It is finally feeling like Spring around me. Flowers are blooming and the peepers are peeping! Nature is doing its thing and waking up....

Jan Ware
Apr 18, 20242 min read


Practicing the Pause
Hi everyone, Happy Spring, or here in New England, Happy Mud season:) Practicing the Pause. What does this mean, really? The answer I...

Jan Ware
Mar 19, 20242 min read


Battling Overwhelm and Helplessness
I hope everyone is well. From the title you may think that I am not, but I am OK. I had a little blip of feeling pretty low. Then, I...

Jan Ware
Feb 27, 20242 min read


Self Love Day??? Is that a thing?
Hope everyone is well. Happy Valentine’s Day! Valentine’s Day is traditionally about honoring the one you love and to celebrate your...

Jan Ware
Feb 13, 20242 min read
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